What is an appropriate gift for someone grieving?

When someone you care about is grieving, it’s natural to want to do something—anything—to ease their pain. But finding the right words can feel impossible, and choosing a meaningful gift can be just as hard. What do you give someone who’s lost a loved one? What can truly help in a moment of such profound sorrow?

The truth is, there’s no “fixing” grief—but a thoughtful gesture can offer comfort, connection, and a reminder that they are not alone.

Go Beyond Flowers

While flowers are often a go-to sympathy gift, they eventually wilt and fade. Many people find themselves surrounded by floral arrangements in the days after a loss, but then left with nothing lasting once the petals fall. That’s where a different kind of gift can make a meaningful difference.

At Grief Gifts, we believe that a sympathy gift should be more than a moment—it should be something that gently honours the memory of a loved one and brings quiet comfort in the weeks and months that follow.

Choose Something Personal and Lasting

An appropriate grief gift is one that acknowledges the depth of the loss while offering a sense of warmth or support. Some of the most appreciated condolence gifts include:

• Keepsakes: A small ceramic heart, a memorial ornament, or a framed quote can serve as a physical reminder of the love that remains.
• Friendship Balls: These beautiful glass orbs are symbols of connection and care. They’re a stunning way to say, “I’m here for you,” without needing to find the right words.
• Gift Card: a heartfelt message of support.
• Comforting Gift Boxes: A curated box filled with soothing items like herbal tea, candles, or a soft wrap can provide comfort during hard days.

Include a Personal Touch

No matter what you choose, the most important part of any grief gift is the intention behind it. A handwritten card, a shared memory, or even just the words “I’m thinking of you” can bring more comfort than you realise.

At Grief Gifts, we include complimentary gift wrapping and a handwritten card with every order. It’s a small but powerful way to show someone that they are held in love, especially when life feels overwhelming.

Respect Their Grieving Process

Grief doesn’t follow a timeline. Some people may appreciate a gift straight away; others might find comfort in receiving something weeks or even months later, after the initial support has faded. An “I haven’t forgotten” gift can be just as impactful as one given immediately.

Ultimately, the most appropriate gift for someone grieving is one that shows your heart is with them—quietly, sincerely, and without pressure to be “okay.”

If you're unsure, trust your instincts. Kindness, thoughtfulness, and presence always matter more than perfection.

Explore our collection of sympathy and grief gifts, curated to bring lasting comfort and gentle support when it’s needed most.